Matchmaking Games!
Sometimes its nice, fun even to imagine putting our friends together or people together...
Match-making can be interesting, but it can also be dangerous to be medaling in other persons private lives. Especially their personal choices and relationships.
But making an introduction can be a positive thing, when leaving the persons to naturally develop their own connection.
However taking "Liberties" is a STRICT NO NO!
Here is a guide of things you should AVOID doing, unless you want trouble!:
- Taking the Liberty to promise a girl" to someone, without this WOMAN knowing is not OK.
- Setting a person up for disappointment by making statements like "SHE WILL LIKE YOU!", without asking or she will look good with you or other things to raise the persons hopes without certainty (especially if this person is not very experienced in relating)
- Encouraging a person to "set on" setting their sights on someone with a fixed "mantality" that this idea of their own is already confirmed without even conversing with the subject of their affection. Inadvertently having a relationship all by themselves it seems, as the person their supposed to be in flaring to isn't involved. They are in fact in this relationship alone?! That is not relating...

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